Why Deserts Matter Too
Have you felt you are in a gold place with no access to nutrition, support or comfort? Like being alone in a desert?
Whatever thoughts, emotions and rationalization that hinders you from actually acting on your dreams and wishes; -” if you find yourself complying to a good reasoning., - then you left your “desert”. You also lost your ability to explore your desert, and this is where all the difference lies.
When you activate your true and authentic desires and creative ideas, - feelings (lets call these feelings ”desert feelings”) of anxiety about failing (no nutrition), pain and loneliness (thirsty in the gold desert), or feelings of being unworthy and/or not professional enough, not smart enough, not beautiful enough, not young enough etc. (no comfort), - will pr. definition surface if you suffer from mirroring flaws..
There are millions of people out there, feeling like you. But Your story about Your journey through Your desert, is what’s going to separate you from the rest. Why is this important?
Even if we are all alike when it comes to fundamental needs, we are each of us unique, each of us have our completely separate and unique stories of personality construction. Let me give you an example: Have you ever seen water molecules that freeze on a window? , Each molecule create a Chrystal that have no copies. It is Unique. You are like this too. If you suffer from mirroring flaws,, you will have to turn inwards and backwards as well as being in the present with a conscious mind to discover this unique being.
The desert is the metaphor for the deficits made in your construction during mirroring flaws. The desert matter too today. The desert has its beauty, and moreover has given you life threatening challenges to manage. This means that it will always be a part of you, but a part where your strength is to find resources, shelter and peace and you have created many oases for ”better times”`. The desert made you focused. Under the right circumstances and with the right resources applied to it, the desert is a place of opportunities where you can start creating a land to benefit your needs and dreams and,
If you activate yourself and feel all the unbearable desert-emotions, it is a good sign!! you are on the right track!! You can now enter a work-through of these emotions (explore and see the beauty of the desert as well as understand deeply the reasons for its scarcity).
If you comply and regress into defensive behavior (occupy yourself with procrastination acts like shopping sprees, attacks on your surroundings, apathy, addictions, or even self loath.) to ”feel good” ( “fell good” here is synonymous to not feeling the traumatic emotions from mirroring flaws or “preventing the desert emotions”), and do not act on your `true` dreams and visions, then it is a sign that tells you still have more courage and ego-strength-work to do.